>It's so frustrating when a subculture humorously critiques itself, which is healthy, and then the greater culture adopts the humorous critique and then beats that subculture over the head with it seen in the comments of f.d signifier’s [hotep video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=chNl9fzE_nc) didn’t finish the video, but like the way this is expressed: when one group creates an in-joke, it’s common for the majority group to take it over and (a) overuse it, while (b) using it as a point of attack *against* the original group.